On the night of Friday, March the 6th, Jennifer Groesbeck and her daughter, Lily, left her parents house to make the drove home from Salem to Springfield. The car would never make it to it’s destination…
Jenny lost control of her vehicle and plunged into the icy Spanish Fork River located in Utah. A completely shocked fisherman stumbled across the wreckage the following day. At that point, it’s estimated that the car had been in the icy waters for about 14 hours.
The emergency services arrived and immediately figured that the car had been abandoned in the river, probably by joy riders.
When they eventually managed to get close to the car they could see that there was someone inside.
They then heard a female voice call out for help, so they all rushed to vehicle and managed to flip it over. There were two people inside.
One of the first respondents reports that he had heard a voice, and he believes one of the others responded with, “We’re trying our best to get in there.”
The adult in the car was dead, and the child looked near enough deceased itself.
They managed to get Lily out of her child seat and safely ashore. The waters were so cold, that the firefighters who had jumped into the river to save the little girl were treated for hypothermia at a nearby hospital.
To this day, none of them really know where that call for help came from.
They later found out that Jenny had actually died on impact, so there’s no way she could have been behind the cry for help. Even knowing that Jennifer couldn’t have called for help, they stand by what they heard.
Jenny’s family are in no doubt that the call they heard came from their dead daughter. She was a devoted mother and she would have found some sort of way to stay with her baby until help arrived.
Lily spent approximately a week in the ICU while recovering.
So what really happened here?
What do you believe?
Did a loving mother find some way to transcend between life and death, to keep her child alive?
Please leave your thoughts and opinions in the comment section below.
A large percentage of the visitors we get to this website are looking for information on the afterlife – it’s a question that has haunted mankind for thousands and thousands of years.
In this article we will be taking a closer look at the case of Jack Froese, and the emails he sent from the afterlife…
An Untimely Death
Pennsylvanian Jack Froese tragically suffered a fatal arrhythmia in June 2011. The death of the popular thirty-something left his family and friends devastated.
After five months of severe grieving and learning to come to terms with his death, Jack’s best friend, Tim Hart, received a troubling email titled ‘I’m Watching’.
Hart would have put this email down to being a sick joke…but it contained information that the two friends had shared in a humorous private conversation…
“Did you hear me? I’m at your house. Clean your f***ing attic!”
Tim was absolutely petrified by the email – in a later interview with the BBC he claimed that this private joke was just between himself and Jack, nobody else could have known about it.
He even tried replying to the email but there was no response back.
Emails From The Afterlife
Tim was not the only one who received these strange digital mails from the dead – Jack’s cousin, Jimmy McGraw, was also a recipient of an email from the same account.
“Hey Jim, how ya doing? I knew you were going to break your ankle. Tried to warn you. Gotta be careful.”
In a creepy coincidence, a few weeks after Jack’s death his cousin had indeed been involved in an accident which resulted in him breaking his ankle.
Tim Hart decided to put the whole matter of the strange emails behind him…but Jack’s cousin could not let it go – he believed that these mails were sent from the other side.
He spent the next few months keeping his eyes open for possible signs from his cousin, but nothing turned up.
Eventually Jimmy began to realize that these emails could have been sent in good faith – a way of helping himself and Tim move on with their lives after the shock of losing someone so close to them.
Who Was The Sender?
But if these emails were sent by a sincere friend/relative – who was he/she?
Investigation from both friends and relatives concluded that only Jack knew the password to his own account.
Recent developments highlighted the fact that the emails could have been sent through the Dead Man’s Switch function – a domain that allows it’s users to send mails up to 52 days after their death (a creepy service really…when you think about it!).
These ‘dead man’s’ messages can be sent out to predetermined email addresses.
But did Jack Froese sign up for this service?
If he did – how did he know he was going to die from something so sudden?
How did he know that his cousin was going to break his ankle at some point in the future?
If you have any thoughts or opinions on the subject we have covered here today, please leave them in the comment section below.
UPDATE: After finishing this article I noticed that various reports state that Jack’s best friend was named Joe Hart…whilst other articles list him as Tim Hart – no idea which one is correct…but it was worth pointing out!
The gift of life is a wonderful thing but it comes with the cruel knowledge that one day it will end. The only true certainty in our lives is that one day we will die.
Those of a more pragmatic nature suggest that the brief time we spend on Earth is the beginning and the end of our existence, while others find comfort in their faith that life is eternal.
For centuries theologians and philosophers have debated the meaning and nature of our existence. In recent years however, it is advances in medical science that may have provided a solution to this ancient enigma.
More and more people are now resuscitated and brought back to life from the brink of death.
What was once a barely reported phenomenon is now publicized and examined scientifically by the medical practitioners that witness it.
Known as a near death experience or NDE, there are many common threads that run through the experiences of people who have seen heaven, not least the completely life changing transformation that many of them undergo.
Although there is evidence from as far back as biblical times of people who claimed to have died and traveled to heaven before returning to their bodies, the subject was largely taboo until recently.
It has only been in the last forty years that research into near death experiences has been conducted in earnest.
This is largely due to the work of psychologist and philosopher Raymond Moody. While he was an undergraduate, a psychiatrist Dr George Ritchie, recounted his own NDE to Moody and sparked in him a lifelong interest in the afterlife.
After hearing his story Moody began to document the experience of others who had been resuscitated after a clinical death.
As his body of work increased, he realized that near death experiences shared many common elements.
Originally published in 1975, Moody’s works opened the floodgates, with thousands across the world coming forward to recount their own journeys to heaven and back.
The Common Experiences
Forty years on and the near death experiences of thousands of people have been analysed and published. Astonishingly, they appear to share many common characteristics.
Race, creed or culture appear to have little influence over the experiences, with many, including those who don’t believe in God or the afterlife, experiencing the same profound series of events.
While not everyone who undergoes an NDE experiences every common element, it is usual to experience at least half of the following.
1) A sense of leaving one’s body after a traumatic and life threatening event. Many people can recall leaving their body and hovering above it as the emergency services or medics attempt to resuscitate them.
Accompanying this out of body experience is a feeling of disinterest. The body is viewed as an empty vessel and the person who has died has no interest or desire to return to it.
People who are resuscitated later can often recall the words and actions of people moving around them including doctors and nurses.
2) Almost immediately, people realize that they are in fact dead. There is no fear attached to this realization and people describe a feeling of well being and comfort.
3) Rapid movement along a tunnel soon begins. The tunnel is described in many different ways, but most commonly as a metal chute.
As the person travels along this tunnel at great speed they are sometimes aware that there are others travelling with them. Sometimes, the movement is accompanied by a whooshing noise, at other times by music.
4) At the end of the tunnel a bright light appears and becomes bigger and bigger as the person approaches. The light is beyond description for many people.
Many describe a compelling need to move towards the light and suggest that all that is good and loving is held within.
For people with strong religious convictions, the light is often described as a deity or person of significance within their faith.
5) At some point the person who has died encounters loved ones and friends who have passed before them. These people often appear as they did in their youth and at the peak of their physicality.
Some meet people who are not known to them. Often these people turn out to be relatives who have passed on before.
6) Senses appear to be heightened, the mind thinks clearly, beautiful colors beyond the normal spectrum can be seen and ethereal music can be heard.
During these experiences people who have been blind or deaf since birth have recorded seeing and hearing for the first time.
7) There is no sense of time as we know it with some people feeling that they have been in their disembodied state for days, when in fact they have been technically dead for just a few minutes.
8) There is often a life review, when people relive the impact their actions good and bad have had on others.
Sometimes this is accompanied by unknown beings who are often interpreted as sacred figures assisting in the judgement of a life.
9) For nearly everybody who experiences an NDE, a barrier is reached and a decision made. For some this barrier is a door or a gate, for others it is a bridge or a stream.
Beyond the barrier the person can see what is commonly described as heaven, a stunning garden, a beautiful meadow or a city of crystal towers. Almost everybody wants to cross the barrier.
Some are told that they must turn back as it is not their time, they have lessons to learn in life. Others are offered a choice.
Often this choice rests upon the impact their death will have on others. Reluctantly many choose to return.
10) The person who has reluctantly returned to their body describes re-entering it through their head. Their spirit or soul is described as being attached to their body by an unbroken silver thread.
11) With resuscitation comes anger and bewilderment, with many wanting to return to the peace and tranquility they have experienced.
For most people though this is replaced by a sense of thankfulness. Often people feel that their life has a purpose and that purpose is to learn and to love others. They often live their lives transformed.
12) Most people who experience an NDE are confident that their experience was real, more real than anything they have experienced in their lives before. They firmly believe that it was not a fantasy or a dream.
The Skeptics View
For many people, the idea that our bodies are host to a soul or spirit that lives on after our death is an anathema.
But with so many people now reporting the same experience as they near death and then undergo resuscitation, science has attempted to provide an explanation.
The experience of those near death is not identical for everybody and scientists point to this as evidence that the NDE is a subjective experience upon which we impose our own reality.
The feelings of well being and happiness are part of an illusory event created by the mind as it copes with the trauma of death.
There are clearly common elements to every NDE but these are merely our own attempts to make sense of what we are experiencing as our brains die.
In simple terms science suggests that one of the first effects of a lack of oxygen to the brain is in fact increased brain activity.
This activity gives rise to a brief period of heightened consciousness. It is during this period of heightened consciousness that the near death experience described by many is experienced.
If the process was to continue, life and consciousness would stop. Death, for the NDE skeptic is the end.
The Experience of Children
There are of course, a group of people in society who would find it difficult to impose their own narrative upon a near death experience.
Very young children rarely have a concept of death, yet many sadly pass away each year. So do those who are fortunate enough to be resuscitated, share any of the same experiences as adults.
The answer is a resounding yes.
Often recorded in picture form, their paintings and drawings provide a tantalizing glimpse of heaven.
As more and more children record their experiences, it is clear that the process of dying as a child is similar to that of an adult.
Beginning with an out of body experience and travelling along a tunnel to light, what should be a terrifying experience is not.
Children describe feelings of warmth, comfort and overwhelming love. Some describe being comforted and reassured by angels, others meet relatives of whom they had no previous knowledge.
Children as young as two have returned with messages for their parents from family who have passed over long ago.
All describe scenes of stunning beauty and are left with the lifetime conviction that they have visited heaven.
A Neurosurgeon’s Experience
In 2008 an American man Eben Alexander underwent an NDE that was to convince even hardened skeptics that there may indeed be life after death.
The difference between Alexander’s experience and others is that he was and still is an experienced neurosurgeon.
Before his experience he held the traditional scientific viewpoint that consciousness ended with death, after he was to take a completely different view.
Falling into a coma after contracting E Coli, Alexander was not expected to live.
At various points in the week that followed, medical tests revealed that there was no brain activity. Kept alive by a life support machine which his family refused to switch off, there was little hope for his recovery.
Remarkably though, the neurosurgeon did survive and the story he was to tell about his long period of unconsciousness was to stun those around him and provoke a debate that is still raging today.
During the time he was in a coma Alexander claims that he experienced many of the common features of an NDE. In particular he suggests that he experienced a heightened state of consciousness and awareness.
This should have been impossible as in Alexander’s case the part of the brain that deals with thought and emotion had shut down completely, a fact that was scientifically recorded.
Taken on a journey through heaven by an angelic being, Alexander awoke from his coma believing that God and the soul are real and death is not the end of life but merely the transition to another realm of existence.
Alexander now believes that science and the near death experience can be reconciled.
He spends his life writing and lecturing upon the subject hoping to convince other scientists that life and consciousness are not confined to the physical world.
Visions of Hell
For most people the near death experience is a positive experience. For some though it is truly terrifying. These people are usually those who have attempted suicide or by their own admission led a bad life.
The beginning of the process is identical to those who have a positive experience, but rather than traveling toward a loving light, they are plunged into a hellish darkness where they are tortured and tormented.
If the NDE is an illusion and the brain’s way of coping with imminent death why is it such a dreadful experience for a minority?
People who experience a negative NDE often have no religious convictions, yet after their resuscitation many turn to religion or transform their lives completely believing that they have received a last chance to atone for their mistakes.
The debate about what happens to us after our deaths will probably continue as long as human life exists.
Most scientists firmly believe that there is nothing beyond the physical world and when the brain dies consciousness ceases.
They explain the phenomenon of the near death experience as a period of heightened consciousness that peaks just before death.
Those with faith require no proof that life continues after death, their religion assures them that there is an afterlife.
For many of us who waver between the two opinions, the testimony of those people who have seen heaven during a near death experience, provides a sense of reassurance and hope.
Hope, not just that our own lives will continue on eternally, but hope that one day we will meet once more, those that we have loved and lost.
Most of us try to avoid the thought that in the afterlife we may be destined for a place down-under. There are some unfortunate people walking among us though, people who have seen hell.
If we have learned anything from Dante Alighieri and the tale of his decent into the depths of hell, experiencing the eternal torment of malevolent entities gleaning pleasure from human abasement is not something many want to experience.
For those unfortunate individuals who claim to have sojourned into the inferno our worst nightmares have become their experience, their reality…
The Other Side
Nearly all of us have heard of near death experiences. When we hear the stories of those who have had a near death experience we hear a lot of talk about light and peace, but what about the other side of the other-side?
There are some woeful people among us who have had the displeasure of standing face to face with the devil and taking a frightful trip through the pit.
Angie Fenimore, a woman who attempted suicide years ago, had such an experience. The website “Cracked” conducted an interview with Fenimore and in it she alleges that when she was momentarily pronounced clinically dead she experienced a flashback of the events of her life.
However, instead of the light we so often hear about, she was encompassed in complete darkness.
According to Angie, she was able to communicate with other souls that were aimlessly wandering the darkness and was then placed in what she could only describe as a field of wandering souls.
One young lady, a girl of only fifteen claims that she too has had visions of hell. Jennifer Perez claims in an article on the website “Devine Revelations” that when she made her journey into the afterlife she was confronted by a great wall and was set in front of God and the angels.
In her testimony, the angel escorted her on a dark path in which she could see souls being tormented by demonic entities.
Her tale of the journey into hell ended with the angel Gabriel telling her that God was going to give her another chance at life.
Jennifer gladly accepted that chance and has been trying to live her life to the best of her abilities, trying at all cost to evade damnation again.
Matthew Botsoford, in comparison to the other claims, actually testified that he experienced the torture himself.
After being shot and pronounced clinically dead three times he had the uncut tour, full hell experience.
According to Matthew, he was shackled over the top of a burning pit containing a demonic figure. The smoke that billowed out of the pit contained the souls of those who had been condemned.
He explains that though he was isolated, he could hear the agonizing cries from other souls that were damned to an eternity of pain and torture.
In his testimony the demonic figures would approach him and pull the flesh from his bones and with each bite would slowly eat away at his body.
When there was no more flesh to be taken a whole new layer of flesh grew back to repeat the experience over and over.
Much of the assertions of these men and women are similar to other stories of people who have ventured the highway to hell and made it back to tell the world about it.
One woman has claimed that she experienced a journey similar to that of Dante in that she claims to have been witness to both heaven and hell.
Mary Baxter states that one night during her regular prayer routine, a blinding light entered the room. That light, according to Baxter, was Jesus Christ himself.
Her testimony is that Jesus took her on a tour of hell for three hours every night for a total of ten nights. Baxter has claimed that hell is physically located at the center of the earth, and that it is shaped like a human lying down.
She, like the others, saw demons that were mocking her in agitation, and in addition she smelled raw sewage and felt the heat of the flames burning against her skin.
Interestingly, Baxter explains that in her vision of hell, again somewhat parallel to Dante, like were grouped with like.
By this I mean murderers were grouped with murderers etc. The type of punishment issued was dependent on the type of sin committed.
She also claims to have ascended the stairway to heaven and witnessed angels of great height, though her experiences of heaven are not as greatly detailed as her time in hell.
Many have denounced Baxter as a “witch” or a false-prophet for claiming to experience such events with a guided tour by the big man Himself.
The stories of people who have seen hell are captivating because as humans we are naturally drawn to learning about what lies ahead of us beyond this lifetime.
In our own fear and self-doubt we try to uncover what hell is and hope that the pit is not our next destination. We are wired to want to know what lies ahead, it has been so since the time humans could communicate and pontificate about the world and universe beyond it.
I leave it to your discretion to decide if you believe the testimonies of the people who claim to have been to hell up.
One thing that we can all agree on is that we don’t want to ever be making our way across the river Styx, and Dante’s Inferno is probably the closest most of us wants to get.